I suppose just exactly exactly just what I’m hoping to get at is the fact that being a lesbian seems very alienating.


I suppose just exactly exactly just what I’m hoping to get at is the fact that being a lesbian seems very alienating.

I’m never gonna manage to relate genuinely to the unsettling heterosexual experiences these ladies undergo, and particularly never to the cognitive dissonance that adopts surviving that. We won’t have the ability to relate with right intercourse, or maternity. They are heterosexual/bisexual experiences. For that reason, I’m never gonna be fully belonging in almost any female area that isn’t exclusively lesbian, in spite of how feminist the right or bisexual feamales in concern may be.

Don’t get me personally wrong, I’d still rather a lot of times be with only women than guys regardless of how much i could or can’t relate genuinely to them. I’m simply stating that feminine areas don’t believe that safe anymore. Nowhere seems safe anymore.

Hate to function as the bearer of trigger talk but We have noticed one thing. I’ve stopped following most non-lesbians I utilized to adhere to over time making numerous lesbian buddies, and also the other time in reading a post about abortion i simply understood exactly how much less triggered I have always been on a regular basis being forced to learn about forced pregnancies, delivery, PIV intercourse, virginity, stigma around females having het intercourse, abusive het relationships, male partners coercing females doing things they dont want to, etc. Constantly needing to see bodies like mine connected to the items We hate the essential and which trigger the worst emotions in me personally. Those are crucial feminist points and since lesbians will always be ladies and therefore susceptible to rape it will nevertheless concern us; but, it just is not something i must hear about everyday whenever we currently have to reside with a mom in a (likely) unhappy marriage and pretend household values and security and just how long they’ve been together suggest such a thing in my experience. I’m just sick and tired of het talk. 続きを読む “I suppose just exactly exactly just what I’m hoping to get at is the fact that being a lesbian seems very alienating.”